In the wake of Christmas or “birthday month” in September (when three of our girls celebrate their birthdays in a span of three weeks), I always find myself wondering if I’m ever going to get the toys organized and put away. With two aunts, three sets of grandparents and several sets of great grandparents and great aunts & uncles, they are showered with gifts.
We work really hard to limit the number of gifts they receive, but new toys are a fact of life and so organizing and decluttering their toys is also a fact of life.
If you struggle with toy organization, here are my best tips for getting organized and keeping the toy chaos under control:
One Toy In, One Toy Out
What to keep, what to give away? In our house, the rule we follow is “one toy in, one toy out.” I’ve always involved my girls in the process of cleaning out their toys to make room for new ones. Because it’s “normal” for them, they don’t get upset by it, but rather help me decide which we should keep and which we should pass on to other kids who might not have as many toys as they do.
Let me start by saying I love toys. I can see the value in many of them, and I have to consciously remind myself that my children don’t need everything just because each has its own benefits, or is so cute, or they’d love it.
However, our toy philosophy is actually pretty minimalist. True to what “they” say, my children play better when they have less to play with. They fight less and use their imaginations more, and clean up is easier for everyone.
To control the clutter that comes from having too many toys, we have a simple rule: one toy in, one toy out.
Now, we’re not legalistic about this rule, carefully counting each toy they receive to decide how many toys we have to give away. However, we have a wardrobe/cabinet for toys, and we only keep what will fit in there.
I remember being so upset once when my mom cleaned out my room and gave away some toys that I still wanted to play with (sounds like fodder for several years of therapy, huh?), so we made the decision to include our girls in this process from the beginning.
We explain that there are children who don’t have as many toys as they do – and some who have none – and that when we receive presents and new toys, we share the blessing by passing on some of our other toys. I never add something to the pile that they feel strongly about, although I do coach them along the way, reminding them that they haven’t played with X in a while and they now have Y to take its place.
Often they surprise me by insisting we keep something I thought they’d forgotten about while willingly adding something else to the pile.
Knowing Your Toy Philosophy
How many toys your family has is a decision only you can make. There is nothing wrong with limiting the amount of toys you keep, or you may decide that you’d like for them to have a wider variety. However, everything I’ve read suggests that the more toys children have within their reach, the less they play with any one toy in depth.
What is your toy philosophy? It’s important to think about what role you want toys to play in your family. This will in part depend on age, number of children, if you’re home all day or only in the evenings and on weekends, etc. Whether you want all of the toys available to your children on a given day or want to limit the number within their reach, it’s important to decide ahead of time so that you can design your toy organization around your philosophy.
Knowing your toy philosophy will in part determine whether you use shelving or cabinets, storage bins or baskets. If you don’t know what your goal is ahead of time, you may end up with a organizational system that is beautiful and neat but doesn’t quite fit your needs.
Organizing with Toy Sets
Toy sets – such as trains and train tracks, baby doll accessories, legos, building blocks or kitchen sets – enhance play, make clean up easier and promote sharing. They’re also much easier to clean up and organize than individual toys.
I highly recommend cleaning up toy sets at the end of each day (or when they’re done being played with for more involved sets such as a large Lego construction) as an important part of keeping sets nice and together. Cleaning up regularly means you’re more likely to notice missing pieces while you still have an idea of where they might have disappeared to.
The question, then, is how to organize these toy sets. I’ve been known to use a plastic grocery bag in a pinch, but there are lots of other options out there as well:
- Baskets. You can pick up inexpensive baskets at the dollar store or yard sales or choose a more expensive variety for aesthetic appeal. Either way, using baskets is a great idea for keeping toy sets together and organized and including them as part of your home decorating.
- Colorful bins or boxes. Whether you choose cloth bins or plastic buckets/boxes, these are another great option for organizing children’s toys while still incorporating the storage unit into your decorating in kids’ rooms or playrooms.
- Clear plastic bins with lids. On the other hand, you may prefer to use clear bins, which allow you to see what each one contains and keep them from getting accidently dumped out or mixed up. This is an especially good option if you keep the sets in a closed cabinet or storage area where aesthetics don’t matter to you as much.
- Cloth or plastic bags. Using simply drawstring cloth bags for your sets can save space because they’re not rigid like a plastic bin. For those worried about the environmental or health impact of plastics, this is a good solution as well. The downside is that you can’t see what’s in them without opening the bag, whereas you can with a clear plastic bag. (Note: it’s important to use those made for toys if you’re keeping them in an accessible location because they are made with a rigid plastic and also have air vents to prevent suffocation. I’ve not had much luck finding these for sale anywhere; we just use the ones that some of our sets come in.)
Several years ago, we purchased 5 plastic Little People bags from Fisher Price. We use these to store a variety of sets. An added benefit of using a container to store a set of toys is it provides a natural limit to how many you purchase. There’s really no reason that children need the complete set of Littlest Pet Shop, and our storage bag helps us to limit how many we have.
Choosing a Storage System
When choosing a storage system, think about whether you want all of your children’s toys to be accessible, or would you prefer a rotating system where only a few are available at a time? Do you keep toys in your kids’ rooms, the family room or a playroom, or a few in each? How do you feel about the toys being spread around the house versus kept in one location? These are all questions you’ll want to keep in mind as we look at different organizing solutions for toys.
- Storage bins. Storage bins can be used to toy rotation simple and easy. Put a variety of toys into each box (for example: manipulatives, learning toys, those that inspire imagination and an electronic toy) until you have several sets ready to be pulled out and rotated.
Pros: You don’t have to think about which toys to rotate. You simply unpack the bin and repack it with the items that were on the shelves already. It also ensures that toys are getting rotated regularly and that there is a good mix of toys with every rotation.
Cons: There is not as much flexibility in a system like this. If your child suddenly becomes enamored with trains or puzzles, it’s not simply a matter of grabbing those toys off the shelf; you’d have to pull them out of separate boxes, which would defeat the simplicity of this system.
- A cabinet or shelving unit. Using a large shelving unit or cabinet to store all of the toys means that they’re accessible so that you – or your child – can easily grab the toys that they want to play with and easily rotate them one at a time as they lose interest.
Pros: This system provides a lot of flexibility for choosing the toys that your family seems most interested in at the moment. The toys are easy to get to, and it’s easy to see exactly what you have.
Cons: If your children are younger, it may be harder to limit how many toys they get out at a single time with a system like this. Studies have also shown that children play more intently with toys when they have less options, so that’s something to keep in mind as well.
- Keeping toys in several locations. Another option for organizing toys is to actually spread them out, so that they are all accessible but kept – and played with – in different rooms. For example, you may have a few toys in your children’s bedrooms, a few in the family room, a few in a designated play area and a few family games in the kitchen.
Pros: You can still rotate these toys between locations (use a laundry basket to move the toys between locations!), but you don’t have to worry about packing them away in storage or about all of them being pulled out and mixed up at one time. This gives children a variety of toys to play with without making all of them accessible at the exact same time.
Cons: If your toys are kept in many locations and you don’t clean up one before moving on to the next, you can end up with a mess that is spread out across your house, making it more overwhelming than a contained mess. Rotating toys is not as simple as with the storage bin method because you aren’t unpacking and repacking a box but just shifting them around, so there are no “new again” toys to pull out.
Of course, these are not rigid systems, but rather just guidelines to help you get started. You can mix and match ideas from each system until you have one that works best for your family!
Making It Easier for Kids to Clean Up
Like a lot of moms, I don’t mind the toys themselves as much as I dislike having to clean them up. Our girls do a pretty good job of cleaning up their toys on their own, but there are simple ways to make cleaning up even easier for them.
- Use picture labels to show children where toys belong. For younger children, label each box/basket/shelf with a picture of the item that belongs there. Use lots of individual pictures to avoid confusion. For older children, take a picture of the shelf or room at large so that they have an idea of what it should look like when it’s done.
- Use boxes/bins to put things away rather than just stacking or piling them. Toy boxes or a pile in the corner can be tempting because it’s easy to throw everything in at once, but it really just leads to more chaos because you have to actually dump out the whole box to find all of the toys you’re looking for rather than just being able to pull out individual containers.
- Help them do it themselves. Kids won’t know how to clean up unless you show them. Although it takes extra time to help them do it — versus just doing it yourself — the payoff is worth it as they learn to do it themselves so that eventually they don’t need your help!
For many families, toys are the hardest area to organize and declutter. However, with these simple strategies, it is possible to get control of the chaos!
What is your toy philosophy? How do you organize your toys?